Time Spent: 9 (Meetings=1.5; Teaching planning=3; Sunday school=2; Service=2.5)
A. My LessonThis week I talked about faithful friendship and the miracle and power of Jesus' forgiveness of our sins.
Mark 2:1-12 –
Jesus can forgive our sins
(also see Luke 5:17-26)
Week Memory Verse:
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9
9:00am
Hang out and play games with the kids as they come to class.
9:10am
Crazy Game: Crab Walk Relay (2 teams…guys vs. girls [if close to even] or just count off 1s and 2s)
9:20am
Have students break into small groups, 4-5 students per group or an amount to accommodate amount of adult or high school aged leaders—one leader per group.
9:21am
Ice Breakers (in small groups)
1. When was the last time you had to go to the ER? Have you ever had to?
2. What was the sickest you ever were?
9:26am
Allow time for hare “Ice Breakers” (those who want to) in front of whole class
9:29am
Read Scripture passage in small groups (Mark 2:1-12).
9:31am
Small group questions
1. Why do you think Jesus said to the paralytic “your sins are forgiven” instead of just healing him from being paralyzed?
2. Why do you think the teachers of the law got so upset with him?
Answer: Because only God has the power to forgive sins and they didn’t believe Jesus was God.
3. If you were one of the paralytic’s friends and saw the crowds what would you have done? (Give them some of these options…)
- Suggest we come back later
- Politely wait in line
- Make a hole in the roof
- Go along but make it clear it wasn’t my idea
4. How would you feel if you were the paralytic when your friends decided to help you drop in on Jesus?
Wary/Cautious/Suspicious
Grateful
Apprehensive/Worried/Nervous (about getting in trouble)
Mixed feelings – “I don’t think this will work but I’ll trust you guys”
Scared – afraid your friends would drop you through the hole!
5. What quality do these four men have that impresses you the most?
Faith (believing that their friend, the paralytic, would be healed)
Ingenuity (taking the initiative to get their friend to Jesus)
Concern (for their friend)
Determination (they were set on getting their friend healed)
Boldness (approaching Jesus in a peculiar way—through the roof!—without fear [Hebrews…? Boldly approach the Throne])
6. What characteristic do you value most in a friend?
Loyalty
Good humor
Compassion
Honesty
Understanding
Strong faith
Other
7. Tell about a time a friend really helped you when you were in need.
8. If you had friends who would take you to Jesus for healing today what kind of healing would you ask for?
Physical
Spiritual
Emotional
Relational
9. What event in your life has brought you closest to God?
When Jesus healed me when I was hurting
When someone I was really close to got sick or died
When I committed my life to Christ
When some friends supported me in a difficult time
I haven’t experienced this yet
Other
10. What is actually the miracle here? Healing or forgiveness?
Forgiveness is a miracle too!
9:45am
Go over questions with whole group (allowing time for students to answer for the whole class after small group discussion).
9:44am
Lesson
Read the passage again (Mark 2:1-12).
“There are two lessons we can learn from this passage. The first, which we have already touched on, is the faith that the four men showed in bringing the paralytic to Jesus. The second is the miracle of forgiveness, the fact that only through Jesus do we have the forgiveness of our sins. One of Satan’s biggest strongholds in the lives of Christians is that he convinces us that our sins are too big for God to handle. How many of you have or have had sins in your life where you feel like they are so big or so bad that God couldn’t forgive you? (Pause for a moment for them to reflect on/respond to that.) I’ve sure felt that in my own life. There have been lots of times where Satan has convinced me that my sin is ‘too big’ or ‘too bad’ for God to deal with; surely God is big enough to handle it, but does he want to forgive someone who has done something as bad as me? Yes! He does! Satan also tries to convince us that no one else struggles with the same sins as us; that if we tell people about our sins we will only feel embarrassed and ashamed at what we are struggling with. How many of you have felt like that before? (Pause for a moment for them to reflect/respond.) That’s a lie from Satan! Sometimes we are too hard on ourselves too. We think that we need to keep asking forgiveness for a sin we committed—and we don’t! It is over and done with. Jesus finished it all on the Cross. Does anyone know what Jesus said right before he died? (Allow time for answer.) Yes! ‘It is finished!’ How cool is that? What is actually the miracle here? Healing or forgiveness: forgiveness is a miracle too not just the healing but that’s usually all we hear.
Sometimes it’s hard to accept God’s forgiveness isn’t it? Can you guys all think of a time when you found it hard to do that? Why do you think it’s so hard for us to accept God’s forgiveness for us?
Heart Questions (Large Group):
- In what ways is sin like paralysis?
- What freedoms has Jesus’ word of forgiveness given to you? Where do you need to hear that word again? (answer with accountability partners)
- In the story do you identify more with the paralytic, his friends, or teachers and why.
Challenge: Commit to finding one person (guy-guy, girl-girl) to be your “accountability partner.” [Make sure everyone knows what an “accountability partner” is.] Share with them what sin you are really struggling with the most and commit to (1) praying for each other, (2) holding each other accountable to working on that sin issue throughout the week, and (3) reminding each other that Christ’s forgiveness conquers all! When we come back next week we’re going to share whether or not we held each other accountable. (This part is important! Make sure you hold them accountable the following week to finding an accountability partner and following up with them.)
9:50am
Break back into small groups.
How can this group pray for you? (Go around and answer. Have people volunteer to pray for one another.)
Take time to pray for each other.
9:57am
Final Prayer & Class Dismissal
B. Response
There were 18 kids present this week. All of them had been there before. They seemed to really enjoy the game and were pretty much involved in discussion the rest of the time which they seemed to enjoy but it was hard to judge how attentive they really were.
C. Supervising Teacher's Evaluation
My supervisor, Jeff Marsee, gave me a few good pointers of improvement but aside from that was very encouraging. He, and the other adult leaders, said that I was very engaging with the students as well as showing my heart and care for them. He commented on my preparedness and structure of my lesson plan.
As far as improvement goes, he reminded me that while I had them break into small groups, I need a backup plan in case the adult leaders don't all show up.
D. Things I did well.
- Prepared
- Connected with the students
E. Things I need to improve
- Get more rest the night before!!
- Be flexible
- Discussion takes longer than you think
F. Question
- What methods of preparation do you use?
- What are some tips for feeling more comfortable? Is there anything besides just experience?